1. Make your first contact memorable. Be concise, honest, friendly and open. If you just want info (shopping?) be honest. If you want to schedule an appointment, suggest best time for you (don't say "How about some time next week?") Mention fee if you don't already know, but don't ask specific questions about it. Don't be graphic or specific-EVER.

2. Tell him a little bit about yourself. Tell him where you heard about him. Don't waste his time-- he gets plenty of inquiries, make yours stand out. Talking on the phone or via e-mail gives you a great idea what's he going to be like in person. If he's friendly and nice, he will be in person. Its also your chance to start building him perception of you. Be respectful. These guys are PEOPLE. Treat them like you would a boyfriend or lover and they will respond positively. It sounds simple, but some guys can be pushy and rude.

3. Now that you've made a good first impression. Show up! Be on time! Be freshly showered and presentable. Not too much "cheap" cologne, please. Be careful of doing anything that would scare him or cause him to be suspicious. Make a great in-person first impression!

4. Be confident and relaxed. Act like you've done this before. Greet him cordially. Give him a handshake (or, even better, a short non-sexual hug!) and smile and look him in the eye. Be nice-- it costs no more and it will pay off in better dividends when it counts.

5. Place the agreed upon fee on a dresser or nightstand. Pre-counted and in a plain white envelope is always a nice touch. Don't seal the envelope. You may even hand it directly to him if it feels comfortable or if he extends him hand-- but DO NOT SAY ANYTHING. Nothing. Just hand it over in payment for his time. Don't argue, ask for explanations, try to bargain, or otherwise ruin the mood at this point. Have a little trust and faith, you will be rewarded!

6. He will likely ask you if you would... "like to get comfortable?" This is your cue to disrobe completely. He will likely go into the bathroom, wait a few minutes and then return to the room expecting to see you naked on the bed. Make small talk and get to know each other for a few minutes. Don't be grabbing and making crude remarks. Everything in its time...

7. Talk to him-- simple but very, very effective. Talk about him-- compliment his attire, his hairstyle. Whatever, but be honest-- phoniness shows up quickly. If he asks about you be open and honest-- it shows. He likes to relax and have a good time, just like you. Talking during the session relaxes everyone and makes it more enjoyable for all. Don't be pushy or grabby. Let him guide the session at his pace. You would be surprised at the improvement in service you'll get.

8. After you get to know each other a bit, he may stroke or rub you a little. Let it progress on its own rhythm. He is aware of the time and will make sure you get your business done in the allotted time. At this time, he may ask "What do you like?" This is your cue to explain in more detail what you like and what you'd like to get from the session. If you encounter a "No!" response, then just don't break stride and be sure that you respect him guidelines. If it's really, really important to you then you might try begging just a little. Above all, accept his limits, treat him with respect and caring, and you will have a good session anyway.

9. Be a gentle and considerate lover. Spend a little time on foreplay. Tell him when it feels good. Ask him if what you are doing feels good or if what you are getting ready to do is OK. Communicate and ask when you are ready to move on to the next plateau or position.

10. If the service was excellent and the company was superb, think about leaving a small tip to express your gratitude. Especially, if you are thinking of seeing him again. Depending on the length of the visit, a token tip of anywhere from $20 to $100 would surely be appreciated-- figure this into your budget for the evening. I do know that this final step has served me very, very well.